METULHEDS LIKE YOU
People always see the big crowds, festivals, arenas and stage lights and think our life (the life of global musicians) is perfect. Far from it.
Also, I often had periods where I felt a certain melancholy. A lot of darkness, an inner weight pressing down on me.
Everyone has their dark time, everyone fights his/her own battle.
When I was younger, coping took all manners of forms, and very few of them were effective.
Dealing with depression is one of the hardest things you will face. My strategy is to keep it simple at first.
What works for me would be a long outdoor peaceful walk while breathing in some cool fresh air...
From experience I would say, that I have a couple of really good childhood friends who are always there for me....
Move on & don’t beat yourself up because shit happens... just the way it is!
"When the going gets though... the tough get going! "Sounds like buzzword or a set phrase but I really try to live by it.
For me it's fairly simple in the sense that I believe strongly you need to focus on (count) your blessings.
Never give up how dark it seems. There is always light at the end of the tunnel.
I walk. In nature or by the ocean where I live.
If you had asked me 10 years ago about anxiety or depression, I would not have had a clue how to even answer you.
This is something that gives me the motivation to progress into the future...
The biggest piece of advice I can give anyone who is dealing with a difficult time is to learn to LET GO.
The key coping strategies that I try to employ everyday are kindness and forgiveness_for yourself as well as others.
It was the best thing I did for myself and my family.
When things get a little overwhelming for me I like to slow everything down. First thing I do is get off social media.
I stay in motion physically, mentally, and creatively.
I learned that the best way for me is to accept the struggle. I'm not gonna fight or deny it.
When I was young Heavy Metal lifted my spirts. Since then, making more Metal has been my life's work.
I take a step back and remember that everything happens for a reason.
I try to adapt to the situation and build a positive thinking strategy.
Not even music could save me, I was empty and without inspiration.
As we get older being more flexible is so important to stay limber, healthy and strong.
So in my younger years I found music as a way out and my way to cope. Heavy Metal became a way of life.
My biggest method has been spending as much time as I can in nature.
For me music is my therapy. When I get sucked into that dark place...
How Blessed I am and how lucky I am for the many gifts in my life.
There are many strategies. First off, therapy can work...
"God is clearing a path for you. Stay on the path." I will never forget those words.
I drink a lot of water, eat fruit and veggies and either jog, swim or go for a very brisk walk to break a sweat.
...which always lifted some of the negativity from my shoulders.
Is there something deeper that might be making me feel the way that I’m feeling?
In my early teens I felt like an outcast and there was no one telling me otherwise.
Whenever I am going through a very difficult time the first thing I do is stop and take a deep breath.
I think one that has always been a go to is getting into my car for a long drive at night...
I would like to say how important it is that mental health be taken seriously.
There are few mechanisms and ways that help me in those hardest moments...
I also find going for a walk on the seafront really helps - taking the dog out kind of forces me to do that!
I was turned onto jumping rope and proper nutrition from a dear friend that I met on the road...
There is a old saying. It’s darkest before the dawn. A very accurate statement of how life rolls.
When things get absolute dark and they sometimes do, I change my everyday routine.
I try to stay in shape physically by training, and mentally by writing and playing music.
...but I learned how to minimize its affect on my body and my mental health.
I really just try to occupy my thoughts with the most positive things in my life.
I guess it really comes down to that you just have to keep going no matter what.